Submitted by: Dan Rich

James F. Gruver

Aug. 24, 1918 - Dec. 21, 2007

South Bend Tribune 12/30/2007
SOUTH BEND - This is a tribute to an officer, a gentleman, and one of God's finest creations. Lt. Col. James F. Gruver (retired) always considered serving his country a privilege and an honor. If he were here today he would tell you that 62 years ago he was in Paris, France, proudly serving as Gen. Dwight Eisenhower's finance officer. Jim was awarded three bronze stars and was a member in good standing of the Reserve Officers Association for over 50 years. Col. Jim, as he was known to his friends and acquaintances, served on the Republican Presidential Task Force under the administrations of Ronald Reagan, George H. Bush and George W. Bush. When Jim returned home after WWII he began a long career with Standard Oil Corporation, now BP. He retired after 34 years of service as one of the top real estate agents in the country. The Honorable James F. Gruver was commissioned a Kentucky Colonel in 1965. Along the way he enjoyed the friendship and camaraderie of his friends as president of the South Bend Exchange Club and as a member of the Olympic Club where he worked out daily. His kindness and his extreme generosity touched many lives.

The Colonel and his former wife, Ruth Recktenwall (deceased) co-created two beautiful children: James Paul (Sue Ann Wilkinson), Minneapolis, and Mary Kay (David Monico), Noblesville, IN. Also surviving are six grandchildren, Neal Schmits, Kelly (Kevin Mangin), James III, William, John and Libbie (Dale Brand). From these came 18 precious great-grandchildren. The Colonel is survived by his wife of 18 years, Anna Maria Kowal Gruver. Their devotion towards each other was complete and beautiful. They were each twice blessed and will love each other into eternity.

All are welcome to celebrate the Mass Christian Burial on Jan 7th at 11 o'clock in the church at Holy Cross College followed by the committal rite at St. Joseph Valley Memorial Park Mausoleum where he will be entombed. Funeral arrangements provided by McGann Hay Funeral Homes. In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in Jim's memory to The Center for Hospice and Palliative Care of St. Joseph County, 111 Sunnybrook Court, South Bend, IN 46637.